why its hard to get a girl?

IMO if a guy is asking "why is it soo hard to get a girlfriend". That question alone speaks volumes. It lets me know he knows absolutely nothing about female nature and how destructive it is, especially in modern society. Or he does know and he himself is as self destructive as it to even want one.

Also why would you want one? Weird thumbnail also. Are you seeking black women? They are the worst of all regarding everything such as personality and their hair. Should be easy to find black women they are always looking to rut like pigs. Or become an adult and go celibate to remain pure and free of corruption from the females.

Depends on what you are looking for. You mean a life companion? Yeah you see humans are selfish creatures that can't be trusted. You didn't know this already? The only decent humans are men who are monks and not interested in buying pussy.