Wife HID Infidelity For 20 Years!

Damn. First, get the kids' DNA checked, Second, keep guilt tripping her and fucking her especially if you can get her to cum. Nothing really picks up strange women like another women's cum-- though it only lasts about 72 hours. Third, find a new pussy. Fourth, all the while cut back on overtime and start moving your stuff stealthy, especially momentos and keepsakes. Five, file divorce and ditch the bitch. Likely, move to another country or at least a new state-- so maybe find another job first.

Yep, the one who complains first is the one that farted ...
And most women are master manipulators by nature.
This guy needs to walk away, trust will never come back, and whenever he sees her, he will feel betrayed and unfairly punished. This relationship has no chance of survival anymore outside of stoic distance.