Why weakness is a choice

The modern Muslim man is a weak man. This does not mean that all men that struggle with addiction are bad but the reality is that there are men who do not care to do anything about their weakness. They claim masculinity but cannot even open a can of tuna. They want a red pill but cannot offer basic hygiene. It is a crisis that needs urgent action from our ulema and it needs special programs in schools, Masjids and communities. Fathers and teachers and imams need to unite to bring these men away from the virtual world where they think they are men to the real world where they have not entered adulthood yet.