Why strippers respect their broke boys more than the suckers spending money on her

Total Facts. I drove for a business owner over 30yrs ago, who frequented strip clubs during our travels. I'd gone to my share in the '70s and '80s while overseas, but at that time, strip clubs just became boring to me; no entertainment value. While he got his lap dances, I'd just sit and have a beer or two, but eventually just told him I'd rather stay in the motel and get my rest.