When Modern Women get Rejected and Dumped

Only the first one admitted that she also has bad times, and even that she didn't want to be with herself during those times. BUT men are supposed to do exactly that : men need to accept being disrespected, ridiculed, emotionally (and sometime physically) abused, and have their peace destroyed. And this probably at least once every month! That is not a working relationship, that is an abusive one. She (who knows herself best) can not even live with herself during those times, how on earth would anyone else be able to do that? It comes down to expecting the impossible, because "I deserve it".
By the way : you have to have quite low self esteem, if the only way you can feel somewhat acceptable is through a mantra (mental lifebuoy). Maybe it's time to start taking responsibility for her monthly shitty behavior, and do something about that instead?