She Got The House- He Got His Life Back (A Redemption Story)

Times like this make me glad I'm single.

I remember one of the WORST ex's ever.

I really liked her and I really wanted that relationship to work.

But plenty of kicks in the head - was good for me.

I had to journal and journal and journal, for MONTHS, and whine at every one, for months, until I got so sick of my own fucking bullshit - I could not even stand to read what I had written...

I am talking about dozens and dozens of typed 10 - 20 page dossiers - really examining the matters in great detail.

Dossiers of diareah - just getting my head around my own issues, in the light of having dealt with a really fucked up person.

So that relationship with she who shall not be named, was good for me.

And now everything is put down in bulleted short lists... Maybe a Paragraph or So - to illustrate the issues and then into the list, these are the issues, this is what can be done about them, these are the things that I might consider later, and these are the things that are no go issues, and this is the SANE outcome I want, or a better direction.

Maybe 1/3 to half a page at the most.

Then leave it.

This is one of the best talks ever.

She sounds like a real cunt AND he sold himself out - when he gave himself up.