I've Been Lying to You

For four and a half years, John Sonmez kept a secret from his wife, Nicole. While they were together, before she moved to San Diego, he cheated on her and then lied to cover it up. Last week she asked him about it directly, and he told her the truth.

In this video John tells the whole story: the lie, why he kept it, what it cost their relationship, and why a secret you keep "to protect someone" keeps hurting them long after the original mistake. If you are holding onto a lie right now, this is the lesson he wants you to take from his mistakes.

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CHAPTERS
00:00 Why I'm making this video
01:05 Four and a half years ago
04:10 What I did instead of being honest
04:28 The trip to Mexico
05:27 The lie I told
07:11 Clarity, and the choice to keep lying
09:59 You can still be transparent
10:34 Two ways to hurt people
12:37 Taking it to the grave
16:46 She asked me directly
20:14 What my friends said
23:13 Lying creates distance
26:02 The lesson I didn't learn the first time
27:28 The slippery slope of a lie
28:36 Rebuilding on honesty
31:11 Do better than me