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Trying To Save My Fat Ex Girlfriend - MGTOW

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Published on 01 Mar 2021 / In People & Blogs

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Hi Everyone Sandman Here,

This video is brought to you by a donation from Slow Learner but what he has to say is lengthy so before I share it let me first tell everyone about today's sponsor Lindsay Transmission: Anyways, now back to the video. Here's what Slow Learner has to say and I quote: "Hello Sandman, This is a follow up on a video you put online December 24, 2015 called "dating fat girls" where I emailed you about my horrible breakup that almost ruined my life. I ask your listeners to watch that video to see how bad getting involved with the wrong person as a blue pill beta male can be. You can refer to me "Slow Learner" now, because it seems it takes me a long time to figure things out. It has been 5 years since that video, and I really started the MGTOW path in 2017. I have been absorbing as much material from your channel and other guys like Coach Greg Adams and Better Bachelor and Red Pill Men's Health and Donovan Sharpe. This has been better therapy for me than all of the counseling sessions I ever attended. My ex of 7 years contacted me in 2018 after the Washington Capitals won the Stanley Cup, using that as an excuse to "breadcrumb" back into my life. She congratulated me on the team finally getting the cup, then asked me if I am dating anyone or in a relationship. When I told her that I am focusing on paying my bills and improving my life, and that dating is not on the table at the moment she replies "fair enough". What kind of response is that? "Fair Enough"? This was not some agreement I was trying to iron out with her, this was me fixing my own issues. Any decent normal human being would say something like "that is a really good idea" or "I hope you meet your goals and succeed". Not a single word of decency, just "fair enough". What the hell do you think she meant by that??? Then she comes back and says her new husband is a struggle to be with and is depressed. I think she is making him unhappy and he sees who she really is. A stuck up arrogant controlling woman. She married a poor white trash guy who put her on a pedestal who thought he hit the jackpot because she makes close to $200,000 a year and works for a big pharma company and has a brand new 3,000 square foot townhouse. She said she married him because he gets her coffee without asking, he cleans the place where as we could afford a maid service together, he does things for her like puts up book shelves, and he has a lot of friends and nerdy interests like Harry Potter and Dungeons and Dragons. It seems like she wanted a nerd butler with a big social circle she could work her way into and make his friends her friends. Before she lost all the weight she said once "I want to be fabulous". If this is fabulous I want no part of it. I am so glad I never married this woman. I went through hell for about 3 or 4 years mentally and eventually learned about female nature but more importantly learned some things about myself that led me to bad choices with women. I am sharing this to be honest and helpful because some guys might benefit from my newfound awareness. It turns out I had a bad codependency issue, combined with what is known as anxious attachment style and bipolar disorder. I encourage the listeners to look these issues up and learn about them. This is more common than we realize with men. I came from an abusive family and lost my mom as a kid to cancer and my dad to his drinking finally catching up to him. For decades I felt like some sort of lost dog looking for love and validation because of what happened. Fear of being alone. Fear of rejection. I only recently put the pieces together and understood this.







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ElHombreporsuCuenta
ElHombreporsuCuenta 1 month ago

I congratulate Slow Learner for waking up and taking control of his own life.
A life full of possibilities and opportunities opens up for him.
And it will depend on him and only on making that life a great work of personal development.
I sincerely hope and wish that you succeed.
I greet you, Slow Learner, and welcome to the rest of your new life.

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Markcohen
Markcohen 1 month ago

Wow that’s very heartfelt. I hope the guy is doing a lot better. Very heartbreaking to hear he lost both his parents. Only to be abused by egotistical and entitled women

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lyhyemmat
lyhyemmat 1 month ago

If it wasn't a environmental crime, I would say to throw your girlfriend back to the sea

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lyhyemmat
lyhyemmat 1 month ago

@hqwebsite: Hahahha exactly! Damn these fat women obstructing my view everywhere

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scott sanger
scott sanger 1 month ago

the never ending attempts to find that ' crack ' in the female persona to be able to get some slot C at no cost to you, requires TOO much TIME and MONEY ....... a lousy ROI is the only thing you can be guaranteed.

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scott sanger
scott sanger 1 month ago

fat, skinny, pretty,ugly.......... EX means what it says........ no longer pertinent to your life. She should hold as much concern as the bloke buying a soda at a vending machine.

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One_Ronin
One_Ronin 1 month ago

I went my own way some time ago, mastering social distancing before it was cool in 2020. The peace and freedom is addicting, can't go back. Sure I stick my toe in the cesspool of dating women (never online) from time to time but it quickly gets tired. The resources and toys I have acquired affords me the luxury of doing what I want when I want sans the drama of women. Why TF would a man give that up?

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scott sanger
scott sanger 1 month ago

try a decent PRO, you can actually have a decent business relationship after a while........... nothing more.

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