The Unfortunate Efficacy of "Putting Your Best Foot Forward"

I made a more recent video that branches off of this one regarding content teaching women what men want in a relationship. There are multiple potential complications to this such as the woman's mentality being one of the ends justifying the means (e.g., well, if I would have told him I have a history of cheating, he would never have dated me.) Moreover, the woman may be able to display the prescribed traits found valuable in a woman by men; however, she may not be able to maintain this state as keeping on a mask can become tedious. This may even result in her resenting the man because she feels that she has to maintain this state despite the fact that she is the one who decided to mold a false reality. In other women, they may also go through with a bait-and-switch method as they know that once they've achieved the end goal of marriage, well, there isn't really a need to maintain the traits that originally got her foot in the door.

@Red Pill Mentor Tokyo: You're correct. Here's more recent information to support your point. This "friend" who is in love with me told me that she has modified herself because of me. She grew her hair long, because she knew that I preferred that. She worked out and lost weight to be attractive to me. She suggested that she might have even modified her personality to attract me. All of that is flattering, but all of that could be quickly reversed if I agreed to be in a relationship with her. She even suggested that she might have a sexual disfuncion (I suspect emotional trauma) that she is keeping secret. I'm not saying any of this to disrespect this woman. It's just data that seems to confirm the points that you've made.

@thisisamgtowaccount: Understood, and it's definitely interesting the lengths women will go to in order to be perceived as an optimal mate. For the men who are interested in dating, one method that may play in their favor would be maintaining the relationship at the level you're currently involved in. At this level, essentially, the woman will remain on her best behavior as she has not obtained commitment. She is most likely, however, under the perception that commitment is coming which may have a dopaminergic component as she is anticipating accomplishing the goal of obtaining commitment.

@Red Pill Mentor Tokyo: I'd be interested in a discussion of the ways that men sometimes do the same type of thing. Carrying lots of debt or working jobs that kill them (slowly inside or quickly entirely) to present a more attractive front to women. Plenty of men drown in debt or sign up to be professional murderers for the promise of pussy that accompanies a uniform.