THE DARK SIDE OF KINDNESS- 8 SURPRISING WAYS EXCESSIVE GENEROSITY CAN HARM YOU - SCROLLS OF MEMORY

Stop being OVERLY kind, it will be your downfall. I experienced this myself and no longer or rarely help or get taken advantage of these day's This applies especially to women who as we know openly spoit their mouths about their hatred of MEN. I used to be good old S"!^&*$( strange name I know)! lol! but yes good ol' ME would do anything for anyone, then I realized I was becoming an emotional tampon for every LOSER, that was turning ME into qa LOSER. So today the only ASS I save is MY OWN. I don't even bother MANSPLAINING anything anymore to anyone, not my problem. I've also studied and learned to do stuff fo0r myself to be self sufficient from other's especially as this place becomes more fucking moronic by the day. I'm not saying Don't be kind, but don't be overly generous or kind - You WILL be used.