Divorce is War | Live From The Lair

ya, this one rang true with my experience too.. I had no idea that I was about to be in divorce court. . Everything was going fine.. she took half our savings , read my savings , while I was at work one day and it was on.

in '88 I had 12,000 in the bank and owned a property outright we were about to build on.. in fact , we applied for everything with the builder and Icaught chicken pox at 26 yoa.. my employer denied I worked there. I was out for 2 weeks.. house deal fell through.. but had the money still.. ubtil she decided she wanted to do something else.. she took 6 thou out while I was at work.. the older guys at work heard my story about the morning thing and they were like I hope you dont have a joint bank account.. I went to the bank straight after work. .hold on 6 thousand..

@jim bennett: and you think.. this is wrong.. this is not gonna happen.. we have kids.. nope nope and nope, wrong answer.. everything is set up waiting for her to make her move..

she hired this lawyer who acted like I had done something wrong.. and hostile to me in the lobby outside of the court.. He was gaslighting me.. I didn't do anything wrong I was heart broke..