Be a man and a woman in Islam - read description to understand

Asma bint Yazid came to the Prophet ﷺ while he was sitting with his companions and said:

“O Messenger of Allah, I am the representative of the women to you. Indeed Allah has sent you to men and women alike, and we have believed in you and followed you.
But we women are confined to our homes, fulfilling your needs, carrying your children, and we share with you in your desires.
While you men have been favored with attending Jumu‘ah, congregational prayers, visiting the sick, attending funerals, performing Hajj after Hajj, and most importantly, striving in the path of Allah.

When one of you goes out for Hajj, ‘Umrah, or jihad, we guard your wealth, spin your cloth, and raise your children. So do we share with you in the reward?”

The Prophet ﷺ turned to his companions and said:

“Have you ever heard a woman ask better about her religion than this?”

Then he said to her:

“Go back and inform the women that a woman’s good conduct with her husband, seeking his pleasure, and following him (in what is right) equals all of that.

* Reported by Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal in Musnad Ahmad (no. 27625, with similar narrations elsewhere)
* Also reported in Shu‘ab al-Iman by Al-Bayhaqi
* Graded hasan (acceptable) by a number of scholars (some differ slightly on strength, but it is widely cited in books of adab and virtues)