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Purity culture analysis pt 1

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Published on 17 Jan 2021 / In People & Blogs

Me giving my opinion :)

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SQUEAK077
SQUEAK077 1 month ago

I meet a few 30 yr olds who where messed up never having sex dating wise they where where most people where in grade school sheltered till they got away from religious messed up parents. Its like believing in the easter bunny and santa clause not talking about religion talking about how parents use this to pressure children into fear. I have seen it all here i was the good son and my sisters were bat crap crazy nuts growing up.

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thisisamgtowaccount
thisisamgtowaccount 1 month ago

Similar situation here. I was the "good kid" in the strict family. My sister went to college and had a friend group that literally went by nicknames such as "hooker", "slut", "little fuck ", etc. Parents who shame, teach through fear, and control seem to either break the will of or prime extreme rebellion in their children. That's why I said that these these "purity" people are creating future slug walk participants.

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thisisamgtowaccount
thisisamgtowaccount 1 month ago

My youth pastor in high school was a woman who taught abstinence through shame and fear. Funny thing, she was a closet bisexual (lesbian despite having several children?) who later had some kind of relationship with a girl from the youth group. I heard from a friend who's dad was an elder in the church that the youth pastor at least kissed a girl, but who knows if that was all.

That youth pastor seemed to sabetage a budding relationship between a young man and woman who were sort of aged out as "youth" and thus serving as leaders. The guy in that triangle was a friend who told me that he suspected that the youth pastor was jealous and was trying to keep attention away from the woman. Basically, this was lesbian style, covert cock blocking / wannabe mate guarding.


I could go on. I wonder how much of the "purity" obsession comes from things that people never admit:

- From women: A desire to sequester the hotter and more desirable generation from becoming competition.

- From men: The extreme pain from being locked into a tradcuck role from which there is no escape without losing everything, including one's soul by being kicked out of the church. Thus, they double down on rules for everyone else. Misery loves company. Also, admitting the tradcuck trap causes too much cognitive dissonance.


Guys in this culture have several challenges:

- Take the pussy off the pedestal that was polished by their churches and families.

- Escape the cognitive association between pussy and unpleasant things (hell, STDs, baby traps, mate guarding angry fathers in the church, etc).

- Escape the role that was planned for them (future guard of daughter's "purity").


It's hilarious. I think Dr Robert Glover, who wrote no More Mr. Nice Guy, says that people in his church would say,

"Sex is dirty and sinful, so save it for the one you love."

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thisisamgtowaccount
thisisamgtowaccount 1 month ago

Future slut walk participants because of this mind fuck.

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thisisamgtowaccount
thisisamgtowaccount 1 month ago

This culture was very real. I'm sure it still exists.

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